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Betty
Sue Coffield Ledbetter |
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Betty Sue Coffield Ledbetter invested several years researching
the Ledbetter and Burroughs families of her husband Joseph
Daniel Ledbetter son of Royal Aubrey Ledbetter, Sr. and
Frances Celeste Burroughs. Most of this sites genealogy
and photos were copied from her research on these families.
Betty Sue was named Patricia Ann Bass at birth. When three
weeks old she was adopted by William and Mary Inman Coffield
and named Betty Sue Kate Coffield. After researching her
husband’s family she researched and found her Bass family
siblings and their genealogy. This led to her documentation
of her Native American ancestors and her acceptance into
their tribe with the tribal of name Gray Dove.
Not only has Betty Sue demonstrated a remarkable ability
in genealogy research, but she has also provided wonderful
expressions of her joy in this quest. The following are
a few examples. Except where comments are included in {braces}
these are Betty Sue’s words.
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Introduction {To Burroughs
and Ledbetter Family Albums}
I first began this labor of love after acquiring the genealogical research papers
that had, years ago, been given to Aunt Ada Burroughs, by
Hannah Moore Smithie. These papers had been in the family
for years and although they certainly were a well‑spring
of information, it seemed as if no one had taken the time
to really understand and organize the priceless information
that they contained.
In the year 1985 Louise Burroughs Scales, of Richmond, Virginia, Ada's sister,
and inheritor of these papers at the time of Aunt Ada's demise,
thought perhaps other members of the family may be interested
in having copies. Louise sent the papers to Aubrey Ledbetter,
her nephew, in Norfolk, Virginia. Copies were made and distributed
to members of the Ledbetter family, the children of Louise's
late sister, Frances (Fannie) Celeste Burroughs Ledbetter.
One day while pondering over these genealogical research papers, and trying
to decipher them, I suddenly realized why they had not commanded
more family interest. Although the researcher, Mrs. Hannah
Smithie, had done a remarkable job of research, the facts
were not organized in a way that could be readily understood
by those who had not been involved in every step of that research.
Mrs. Hannah Moore Smithie, as I discovered in attempting to
organize this valuable material, was first cousin to Carrie
Simcoe Burroughs. Their mothers were sisters. Mrs. Smithie
was doing research to enable her to qualify for membership
in The National Society Of Colonial Dames of America, and
her direct line of ancestry was the same as ours, diverging
only at the point of Carrie and Hannah's respective mothers,
Parthenia and Jennie James Spilman.
As I write this Introduction to our precious Family Album, it is April 1993.
1 have been working on our family genealogical history for
five years. In addition to putting the original research work,
and information gleaned from letters contained therein, in
order, I have continued the research on our direct line from
that previously mentioned diverging point.
Dan and I have traveled, contacted relatives that we never before knew existed
(via phone and letter), haunted cemeteries, courthouses, libraries
and churches not to mention the frequent onslaughts on the
Virginia Dept. of Vital Statistics. In doing so we have uncovered
a treasure‑trove of documented family history that we
were totally unaware of when first beginning this exciting
and rewarding genealogical journey into the past.
In some instances we have been able to re‑construct the general everyday
life of some family members and in other instances have become
aware of heart‑warming triumphs as well as heart‑rending
tragedies. Some long‑gone relatives have been rescued
from the dusty shadows of the past and brought into the light
to burn brightly in our memories as well as our hearts.
In the section accorded each family member, I have tried to avoid putting in
"just the facts," but have tried to capture the
true essence or personality of each individual by using mementos,
letters, awards, military records, handwriting samples, and
also marriage and death certificates when available.
We feel a bond with these loved ones, some from an era long before I was born.
I am continuing the search and know that it can never really
end, as there is so much to look for. One found piece of the
puzzle only suggests another.
I hope that I have managed to do justice to each and every family member. As
you start your journey through this album I hope that you
will feel the sense of pride and continuity with the past
that Dan and I have experienced while working on this project.
We have come to realize that 'time' is relative and that what
we think of as, 'way back then', is in reality only yesterday.
My wish is, that after I am gone, that someone will continue this album and
so preserve for future generations the family heritage and
unique personality of each family member, not only those already
recorded within, but also those yet to be born that should,
as their right, eventually be accorded a place among its pages.
Betty C. Ledbetter (wife of Joseph Daniel (Dan) Ledbetter)
April, 10,1993
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{Poem To
Cousins}
In
one of my ‘corny’ but heartfelt poems, that I wrote many years ago about
one of my childhood’s happiest
memories, I speak to my cousins in that poem, ( they shared
those memories of that long ago time with me) and this is
what I say to them in the last two verses (this poem concerned
a visit to two of our favorite aunts in Edenton, NC each
summer and their house that we have such fond memories of.
Strangers now lived in that house that we
love,
of neglect there were so many signs,
But my cousins and I simply superimposed
on it
the
original etched in our minds,
And saw it again with the porch
and the bell
Like
it was in those happier times...
And as long as just one of us
remains and remembers,
It
will always exist in its prime.
So from time
to time cousins let us again
take
that journey through a train of thoughts through
the mind,
And review the bright pictures
stored there
for
safe keeping, safe from the changes of time,
Where nothing can change things—even one
whit,
no matter the passage of time.
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THE JOURNEY
By Gray Dove2
I shall always remember the day that I mailed my nearly 5
pounds of genealogical documentation to the Nansemond Indian
Tribal Association. The date was November 19, 1996. As I placed
my carefully packed, wrapped and addressed package on the
counter of the post office window it seemed as though I was
giving up a part of myself. Events leading up to that day
will always be indelibly stamped in my mind.
For three years I had worked almost nonstop putting together
my Bass genealogy in hopes that I could one day document every
link in my ten generations of linage spanning back to the
1638 marriage between John Basse, son of the English Captain
Nathaniel Basse, and Keziah Elizabeth Tucker, a convert to
Christianity and daughter of the Chief of the Nansemond Indian
Tribe. Only by doing so would I then be able to gain admittance
into the Nansemond Indian Tribal Association. The Nansemond
Indians were once a part of Powhatan's Confederacy or Empire
and originally lived along the Nansemond River in Virginia.
At some point during the 17th century the Nansemond split
into Christianized and non-Christianized divisions. The Christianized
group eventually migrated into Norfolk County, Virginia, settling
near the northeast edge of the Dismal Swamp in the area of
Bowers Hill. That area today is in the City of Chesapeake.
My direct line, Andrew Bass, Sr. a grandson of John and Keziah
Basse, thru their son Richard, then went South into North
Carolina's Black Creek area.
It was only in January of 1994, after much searching and
a few major miracles that I had managed to find my own biological
roots. I had been adopted when three weeks of age. My birth
name had been Patricia Ann Bass. That entire name was legally
changed at the time of my adoption. After years of searching
and many setbacks I finally found my siblings. Both biological
parents were by that time deceased. There had been seven of
us children and five of us remained. I mention this finding
of my siblings as it precipitated a series of events that
ultimately led to a most amazing culmination of my genealogical
journey.
During the reunion with my siblings in that January of 1994,
I had the good fortune to meet Edward Bass, a first cousin.
I learned that it was cousin Ed's family that had commissioned
Dr. Albert D. Bell to compile that genealogical treasure,
Bass Families of the South. That amazing book contained, along
with much other Bass data, information about the Nansemond
Indians and their Bass linage. Ed told me when we first met
that we were somehow descended from that marriage of John
Basse to Keziah Elizabeth. At that moment, I knew in my heart
that I would not rest until I had proven and claimed that
wonderful heritage. I purchased another genealogical book,
The Bass Family of Black Creek NC by Albert Bass, Sr. and
Jr. Many days were spent in the courthouses of North Carolina
and in the State Archive in Raleigh. I began to gather the
needed documentation--- wills, deeds, birth and death certificates,
marriage bonds and other important papers. I knew I needed
to link, with hard fact, each generation one to the other.
Toward the end of 1996, I felt that I had finally amassed
the needed proof. The problem then became how to assemble
and present it. Just handing over a five-pound box of documents
could easily overwhelm even the most diligent and devoted
genealogist.
I finally settled on the idea of presenting my linage and
the proof thereon in book form. A large three-ring notebook
separated into sections. One section for each generation,
with that generation's Pedigree Charts and all other pertinent
data safely ensconced in glare-proof clear sheets. The wills
and other old documents that were hard to read, either because
of fading or the flourish of the Old English type of handwriting,
I made legible by typing these documents double spaced so
I could insert notes and call attention to the names I was
trying to bring to the forefront in order to establish that
particular link. Although this typing procedure was time consuming,
it helped me to make the connections of the generations more
apparent. I then inserted these legibly typed copies along
with the originals into the proper sections. Each generation's
section also contained a Family Group Record with the names
of the father, mother and all children born of that union.
I then highlighted the child thereon that was my direct line.
When finally completed, my book weighed close to five pounds.
I felt such pride and a deep sense of fulfillment in knowing
that I had rescued long forgotten, or here-to-fore unknown
to me, relatives from the dark recesses of time. In my heart
and mind they now lived again as distinct personalities. Through
the study of documents I was able to piece together both the
small and large events of their lives. I learned of their
economic status by reading wills. Many times I would suddenly
be overwhelmed by the thought that was it not for these ancestors
I would not even exist! In my heart I said a silent thank-you.
The postal clerk took my package, weighed and stamped it,
and on its way it went via certified mail. I later agonized
that I may have left something important out. Or perhaps put
too much in? Was I correct on all those dates? How did I ever
think I could go that far back in time and still be able to
prove my linage and be accepted into the Nansemond Tribe?
As the days snailed past and three months had elapsed my hopes
began to falter. On the bright cold morning of February 12,
1997, I was at the breakfast table when the phone rang. My
husband answered it and handed it to me saying in a soft whisper,
"It's Wind Song." I knew that this was my answer
be it yea or nay! My heart leapt as I heard her voice telling
me that I had been accepted. My documentation had been found
to be valid in every regard. Oh, the rush of joy I felt! I
was to be received into the Nansemond Tribe by voice vote
at their next meeting. (Note: "Wind Song" is herself
a birthright member of the Nansemond Indian Tribe and the
tribal genealogist.)
The much awaited day finally arrived. The meeting, with Chief
Barry W."Big Buck" Bass presiding was held in the
Indiana United Methodist Church in Bowers Hill, Chesapeake,
Virginia. That church was, many years ago, an Indian mission
and later an Indian school. I was duly voted in and chose
Gray Dove as my tribal name. I had become a proud birthright
member of the Nansemond Indian Tribe. All of my fellow tribesmen,
as did I, descended from that 1638 marriage . . . a marriage
that took place so very long ago and yet only yesterday. This
special genealogical journey was now complete. I had come
full circle. The precious past had now become an important
part of my future.
I have listed below two sources of information to aid those
wishing to study and learn more about the Powhatan Indians
of Virginia.
1.
Pocahontas's People: The Powhatan Indians of Virginia
Through four Centuries By Helen Rountree, University of
Oklahoma Press.
2.
The Powhatan Indians of Virginia: Their Traditional
Culture By Helen Rountree, University of Oklahoma Press,
By Gray Dove
Birthright member of the Nansemond Indian Tribe.
Copyright 1998-2000. This material may be saved and used
for ones own purpose but must never be printed or placed in
a book without the permission of author.
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To Margaret
{Betty Sue to her older sister on finding her
in later life after the separation of adoption}
I wish we had cut out paper-dolls and
climbed Wild Cherry trees,
Walked barefoot through white clover
amid the honey-bees,
Sat side by side in an old porch swing
and childhood secrets shared
Or woven the yellow butter-cup chains
to adorn each others hair.
I wish we had been happy children
walking arm in arm
While you my older sister protected
me from harm.
I wished we had grown up together, I
could have teased you about your

first beau,
And you could have taught me, ‘baby
sister’, the things that I

needed to know.
We could have shared all the birthdays
and ice-cream
And at Christmas it would have been fun
to open our presents together
(Or before Christmas peek at each one.)
Fate decided it different and for a
life-time we have been apart
My long search has now been rewarded
and you fill a void in my heart.
We can now do the things that I’ve
mentioned…
We can walk hand in hand, arm in arm.
I’m still your baby sister
And you can still try to keep me
from harm.
We can surely walk barefoot on clover
amid the honey-bees, but…
The one thing we may have to miss
out on..
Is climbing those Wild Cherry trees!
Our bones have become a bit fragile
and hips might break in a fall
But if you’re game, I am, and we’ll try it
(Or perhaps we should cut paper-dolls?)
Oh, How lucky I am to have found you
I can hardly believe that its true!
I now have my very own sister and
I’m so happy that sister is you!
Betty C. Ledbetter
February 5, 1994
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